Getting guys to honestly admit which sexual positions or activities they don’t like is no easy feat. Asking this question is likely to get one of the following responses: a smile, a long silence (with a smile), a wince of the shoulders, the “any position is fine” excuse followed by more silence, and finally, a reluctant admission that, well, there might be one or two things that they don’t like. Here are 5 Sex Positions or Activities Some Men Say They Deep Down Wish They Could Be Replaced with Conventional Oral Sex, but Still Want.
5 sex positions that are the worst
1. Position 69
For any woman who has ever felt insecure about receiving oral sex, a 69 position might seem like the perfect solution. You can distract yourself from your body by engaging and giving your partner oral sex while also getting the ultimate pleasure in return. But did you know? Many men complain that a 69 position doesn’t allow them to focus on you and your desires (which is the best thing you’re ever going to hear) and use their tongue to work its magic in a way that brings you to orgasm. And there are physical problems with a 69 position, especially if your partner is 6’2″ and you’re 5’1″. It’s just not comfortable.
2. Playing with the testicles
Women’s magazines have been teaching women for decades that all men secretly want us to play with their testicles, right?! Unless you know that sensitive area (which I assume means you have to be a doctor). Many men would rather you stop reading women’s magazine advice and leave their testicles alone. As James R. admitted to me, “We don’t really like having our testicles played with unless you really know what to do with them. Testicles are very delicate, and they can be very uncomfortable if you don’t know what you’re doing.”
3. Anal pleasure
Similar to the myth of testicle play, many women I’ve talked to over the years assume that their partners will be more than satisfied if they just give in to anal sex. While it makes dirty talk hotter, many men say that the reality of anal sex is that it can be messy, dirty, painful (for both women and men if there’s no proper lubrication), and more trouble than good. “It sounds like a hot สมัคร ufabet idea, but in practice it’s messy and has more downsides than upsides,” says Brian P. “I’ve never heard a guy describe anal sex and say it’s fun.”
4. When a woman straddles him and moves vigorously
Before guys come screaming at their computer screens that this is ridiculous and that I’m trying to ruin their amazing sex lives, let me explain. Men love it (the word “love” is too weak to describe the emotion) when women straddle them and move wildly. The problem arises when we try to turn ourselves into porn stars and move wildly, not caring if we’re twisting or trying to break our partner’s penis. “Gentle and slow is good enough,” says Dylan M.
5. The woman’s pose is straddling and turning her back .
Similar to how many men complain about women straddling them and moving too hard, some men say that the mere sight of their partner turning around can bring them to orgasm in seconds. However, this position is tricky and can cause serious damage to a man’s penis if we lean forward too far or move too hard and forget that there’s another person involved. When in doubt, start slow and gradually increase the intensity.